29 April 2010

rocking the boat

If someone were to tell you I wasn't strong willed or opinionated you'd know either A. they have never met me or B. they are lying.
I suppose its a blessing and a curse to have those qualities, I'm sure as our relationship continues Matt will be tested with my stubbornness, yes I have warned the man, I think he is in disbelief... or was until now. The Move is in full swing, no turning back now, no running and screaming from this! Its happening and I wonder who throws in the towel first... the OCD, must have things her way girlfriend or the messy, forgetful boyfriend. I'm putting money on the boy.

Yes I have done this before, I have a few living with boyfriend experiences under my belt so that gives me the advantage over Matt of knowing all the possible tiffs and experiences. However I think this time around will go much smoother. With live in Boyfriend number 1 we didn't work because he was dirty and I was messy and we often argued over chores and He was out all the time and always had all kinds of people over and all times of the night, it was too much of a party for me. Boyfriend live in failure number 2, party boy... should have seen this one miles away... the man boy ( he was a child in a 26 year old's body) had a strict religious mother he lived with and freedom from her meant going wild, out all the time, unreliable to pay his party of the bills, filthy slob and would leave town without notice. nonetheless I deem him worst boyfriend of all time.

ok ok bit of a tangent... well anyways I love Matt tons tons tons more than any of those previous and I see this going smoothly, we've already met a few stressful moments such as the one posed on us now, the hooking up of the utilities.... ugh NIGHTMARE but once we get this taken care of we will be fine, its nothing I know but poor Matt is currently running all over town trying to get everything in order. :) best boyfriend ever.


xoxo Hillary

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